Recently my boyfriend has been telling me that his famliy (grandmother and mother especially) have been talking about me and saying things that are not true. Apparently I am a "controlling bitch". This saddens me to hear this because I have not done a thing to either one of them. My boyfriend has been living at my house for months due to the fact his own mother kicked him out and told him not to return. His mother has problems and does not keep her priorities in order, but that's another story. I'm the only one in his life who is caring for him. His family doesn't even care if he is alive day to day. They don't contact him or worry about him. Ever since my boyfriend has been spending time with me, it's like they have something against that, and i'm the target. I don't believe they want us to be happy. For our 7 month anniversary, my boyfriend bought me flowers and delivered them to my work. The grandmother's response: " did she demand you to bring her flowers at work" ? She also told my boyfriend she heard stories about me "controlling him". I am shocked, saddened, and have no clue what to do about this. His grandmother's accusations appeared out of no where. Now, I am not the least bit controlling and the accusation of demanding to recieve flowers? was that even a serious question? My boyfriend says he appreciates how I take care of him, but honestly, I don't feel it. I feel alone in this huge mess. He lets his family get away with saying these horrible things about me. I feel as though, if he cared for me he would tell them the truth or tell them where to go. What would you do in my situation? Please help. | 
